In the last
LDS General Conference Elder Ballard encouraged all children to put their arms around their mother often and tell her they love her. Since I live a bit too far away for a hug, I hope this post will convey the warmth of a hug and remind my mom that I love her.

On any given Sat. evening in the Thayne household you might hear my mom say, "We have the
BYU play tonight, hurry and get ready so we don't loose our seats, and remember no jeans!" For as long as I can remember my mom bought season tickets (4
th row) to the
BYU performing arts. Which meant that every-other month on a Saturday night she would drag us, (sometimes literally) all dressed up, to sit through a 2 hour performance. We would all roll our eyes, (including my dad) and ask do we
have to go! She would always respond "yes, you'll thank me when your older." Well, I'm a little bit older and I would like to say "Thank you mom." Not just for forcing culture on us but for many, many, things: Thank you mom . . .
1. For forcing culture on us! Today I consider a treat what I once considered torture. I now go to the symphony only once a year on my birthday and love every minute of it; when I was a kid we went often and I would twiddle my thumbs, counting the minutes before it was over. My mom always took us to places and events most people would say "kids don't belong." Although I was usually board stiff, I learned to act like a Lady at a young age and I kinda liked wearing my pretty purple dress coat too. Favorite memories: The
BYU creamery after plays, girls trip to San. Fransisco to see Phantom, just me and mom at CATS; performed at the original theater in London, and last but not least; making fun of the
BYU plays with Stan.
2.For teaching me to be charitable. My mom has always taken families and individuals under her wing and gives and gives and gives and gives some more. Favorite memories: cutting down extra
christmas trees for a family that wouldn't otherwise get one, late night grocery drops to friends in need, boxes and boxes of stuff for the
mexico christmas caravan leaving our house, garage sales where everything cost 25 cents. (that was my idea!)
3.For giving us every opportunity possible. Although I never excelled in anything my mom made sure I dabbled in everything! I took lessons in: piano, violin (age 4), guitar, banjo, clarinet, voice, Italian, Japanese(age 4or5), Spanish, sewing, pottery, girl scouts (she was our leader), dance of every type, swimming, soccer (she coached), tee ball, soft ball (once again she coached), lacrosse, skiing, rock climbing, and the list goes on. Favorite memories: Ice cream and
cheetos at the winder dairy after girl scouts, pottery class in Aunt Carole's garage
4.For being a stay-at-home, working mom. My mom had a beauty shop in our home, so besides being a full time mom she was also a full time beautician. I had the best of both worlds. I learned the self-reliance of a child of a working mom and had the attention and supervision of a stay-at-home mom. Memories: helping mom take out perm rollers in the beauty shop, having free reign of the kitchen while making after school snacks (usually melted
marshmallows or
cheese crips)
5. For giving me a great childhood!
Happy Mother's Day! I love you